“You can't retire to weakness -- you've got to learn to control strength.”
“You've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above.”
“The answer can't be found in books - or be solved by bringing it to other people. Not unless you want to remain a child all your life. You've got to find the answer inside you - feel the right thing to do. Charlie, you've got to learn to trust yourself”
“... and if you can't fix it you've got to stand it.”
“A weak person has no control over their anger...A stronger person has the strength to contain it.”
“People don't get this: but memories are just like the future. You can't plan for when they show up, and you've got no control over them when they do. Worst of all, the older you get, the sadder they are.”