“Violence was just as much about WHAT was happening as it was how it happened.”
“It is not so much what happens to you as how you think about what happens.”
“...our expectations are the result of our beliefs about how likely something will happen combined with how much we value what we hope will happen.”
“It's not so much what happens to us but how we deal with what happens to us.”
“What's happening is merely what's happening. How you feel about it is another matter.”
“Happiness is not about what happens to you, but how you choose to respond to what happens.”