“Our habit of wishing backward from what is to what might have been is the soft but persistent tapping that cracks the crystal.”
“It was not his habit to dwell on what might have been but what could never be.”
“Haven't you ever wished that you could steal back just a few hours of your past?" she asked softly. "That's all I want... just a little taste of what might have been.”
“Our reactions to unhappiness can transform what might otherwise be a brief, passing sadness into persistent dissatisfaction and unhappiness.”
“We can't live our lives according to what might have been. We have to live by what is.”
“I do not believe, from what I have been told about this people, that there is anything barbarous or savage about them, except that we all call barbarous anything that is contrary to our own habits.”