“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”

“When we change the way we look at things the things we look at will change”

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find withanother, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not changeyou. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when youare looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness orfrustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty aboutsomething by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever itis about you that is making you unhappy.”

“All blame is a waste of time. No matterhow much fault you find with another,and regardless of how much youblame him, it will not change you.”

“Never underestimate your power to change yourself; never overestimate your power to change others.”

“Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.”