“When you can't find a remedy for your pain, you look for someone to blame.”

“To see someone you love in so much pain—especially emotional pain that can’t be remedied—was the worst form of torture.”

“Someone had to be blamed. Someone had to die. (...) What you can't understand, you destroy.”

“When someone stabs you it's not your fault that you feel pain.”

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find withanother, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not changeyou. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when youare looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness orfrustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty aboutsomething by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever itis about you that is making you unhappy.”

“Love is not finding someone to live with. It's finding someone you can't live without.”