Habeeb Akande is a British-Nigerian sex expert, historian and erotologist. He is a bestselling author of seven published books on sexual pleasure and African history.
His main research interest include erotology. and female pleasure in Islam and African cultures. As a public speaker, sexologist, and cross-cultural sex educator, Habeeb carries out workshops on the clitoris, kunyaza, and female ejaculation at international conferences and leading universities. He featured in the BBC documentary, The Orgasm Gap (2020), which explored teaching female pleasure in Rwanda and the UK.
BBC described him as the "man who is finding ways to close the gender pleasure gap outside of the classroom."
He is also a chartered accountant by profession and former student of Islamic law at al-Azhar University in Egypt.
“God protect me from the lazy, selfish and ungrateful.”
“The lazier a man is today, the more he plans to do tomorrow.”
“Teach don't preach!”
“Indeed His blessings are in the struggle.”
“Stop making excuses, start making changes!”
“A setback is a lesson to push you forward.”
“If she does not respect you, she will replace you.”
“Lazy people live lonely lives.”
“Money brings you the women you want, struggle brings you the women you need.”
“Sarcasm is one of the many services I offer to people who ask stupid questions!”
“Boring people live boring lives.”
“Persistence is the twin sister of excellence. One is a matter of quality; the other, a matter of time.”
“Boys seek attention, men demand respect.”
“Keep striving, for God gives His hardest battles to His strongest soldiers.”
“Stop complaining and start living.”
“You can't master your future if you're still a slave to your past.”
“I would rather be a conscious wrongdoer than a mindless saint.”
“Opinions are like a**holes, everyone has one and they are usually full of sh*t!”
“Embrace the pain to inherit the gain.”
“Don't be bitter, be better.”
“You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are.”
“Formal education makes you a living, self-education makes you a legend.”
“The more you overthink the less you will understand.”
“Penetrate her mind to give birth to her soul”
“A good farmer never plants all his seeds in a single piece of land.”
“Get better with age or else age will get the better of you.”
“God has given you a gift, why not open it?!”
“Never let anyone tell you, your Black is not beautiful.”
“Do not forget to tell your daughters God made them beautiful.”
“Patience can be bitter but her fruit is always sweet.”
“white is not always light and black is not always dark.”
“Always strive to get to the top in life because its usually crowded at the bottom.”
“Never settle for less when you deserve more”
“A religious person without no job is a dead person. (Iigbagbo ti koni ise oku ni. - Yoruba proverb)”
“Talk is cheap when your words have no value.”
“Talk is cheap when your words are of no value”
“Life is like a rollercoaster with highs and lows. So quit complaining about it and enjoy the ride!”
“There is enough dough in the world to make bread for us all to eat together.”
“If you are not working towards something, your life will end with nothing.”
“Read to succeed”
“Never lose sleep over someone who is not worth staying awake for.”
“Observe the eyes, for they are the windows to her soul.”
“If you can't be inspired, be the inspiration.”
“The real regrets in life are the risks you didn't take.”
“Focusing on other people's flaws will distract you from seeing your own.”
“Arrogance is thinking you are above someone else, Confidence is knowing no one is above you.”
“A good woman keeps her mind right and her body tight.”
“Treat her like a princess if she behaves like royalty.”
“Confidence is providence”
“Insecure people put others down to raise themselves up.”