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Habeeb Akande

Habeeb Akande is a British-Nigerian sex expert, historian and erotologist. He is a bestselling author of seven published books on sexual pleasure and African history.

His main research interest include erotology. and female pleasure in Islam and African cultures. As a public speaker, sexologist, and cross-cultural sex educator, Habeeb carries out workshops on the clitoris, kunyaza, and female ejaculation at international conferences and leading universities. He featured in the BBC documentary, The Orgasm Gap (2020), which explored teaching female pleasure in Rwanda and the UK.

BBC described him as the "man who is finding ways to close the gender pleasure gap outside of the classroom."

He is also a chartered accountant by profession and former student of Islamic law at al-Azhar University in Egypt.


“Often the best advice is not to seek advice.”
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“The one who cannot see your vision will be blinded by your mission.”
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“I love living in the ghetto!" #PoorMindSet”
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“I wonder if you can taste the bullsh*t that's coming out of your mouth.”
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“My heart does not desire what my eyes does not admire.”
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“Rumours are like sexually transmitted diseases, both are spread by whores.”
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“Religious discrimination is not like racial discrimination. One you chose for yourself, the other God chose for you.”
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“Her black is beautiful, his society is ugly.”
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“People with the smallest minds often have the biggest mouths.”
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“Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hourTrue friends are like stars, you don't always see them but they are always there.”
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“There is nothing more attractive than confidence, once she sees her own beauty, everyone else will.”
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“Life without a cause will have no effect.”
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“The weak makes excuses, the strong makes changes.”
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“Read the stories of the past to write your story for the future.”
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“Fish in another man's pond and you will catch crabs.”
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“The best winners are the worst losers.”
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