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Stephen Chbosky

Stephen Chbosky grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and graduated from the University of Southern California's Filmic Writing Program. His first film, The Four Corners of Nowhere, premiered at the 1995 Sundance Film Festival and went on to win Best Narrative Feature honors at the Chicago Underground Film Festival.

He is the recipient of the Abraham Polonsky Screenwriting Award for his screenplay Everything Divided as well as a participant in the Sundance Institute's filmmakers' lab for his current project, Fingernails and Smooth Skin. Chbosky lives in New York.

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“I used to listen to it all the time when I was little and thinking about grown-up things. I would go to my bedroom window and stare at my reflection in the glass and the trees behind it and just listen to the song for hours. I decided then that when I met someone I thought was as beautiful as the song, I should give it to that person. And I didn’t mean beautiful on the outside. I meant beautiful in all ways.”
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“And it all felt very unsettling to me.”
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“I would tell you about the rest of the night, but i honestly dont remember much about it. It's all a very sad daze.”
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“This was a different kind of crying”
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“Five minutes of a lifetime”
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“I think on my next birthday, I'm going to buy her a present. I think that should be the tradition. The kid gets gifts from everybody, and he buys one present for his mom since she was there, too. I think that would be nice.”
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“Incidentally, I only have one cavity, and as much as my dentist asks me to, I just can't bring myself to floss.”
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“I don't want to be somebody's crush.if somebody likes me, i want them to like the real me, not what they think i am. And i don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me,so i can feel it too. - Sam”
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“Sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there.”
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“And then he says something like this ... "I would die for you. But I won't live for you." Something like that. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people.”
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“Well, I thought a lot of things. But mostly, I thought that your being sad was much more important to me than Craig not being your boyfriend anymore. And if it meant that I would never get to think of you that way, as long as you were happy, it was okay. That's when I realized that I really loved you.”
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“That you wanted to sleep for a thousand years. Or just not exist. Or just not be aware that you do exist. Or something like that.”
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“Welcome to the island of misfit toys”
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“The truth is, when it gets really quiet, when the silence gets too loud, i really start to miss everyone.”
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“Por lo tanto, creo que somos lo que somos por muchas razones. Y tal vez nunca lo sabremos más que ellos. Pero incluso si no tenemos el poder de elegir de dónde venimos, todavía podemos elegir a dónde ir desde allí. Todavía podemos hacer cosas. Y podemos tratar de sentirnos bien acerca de ellas.”
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“Podría morir por ti. Pero no voy a vivir para ti.”
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“Anyway, Patrick started driving really fast, and just before we got to the tunnel, Sam stood up, and the wind turned her dress into ocean waves. When we hit the tunnel, all the sound got scooped up into a vacuum, and it was replaced by a song on the tape player. A beautiful song called "Landslide." When we got out of the tunnel, Sam screamed this really fun scream, and there it was. Downtown. Lights on buildings and everything that makes you wonder. Sam sat down and started laughing. Patrick started laughing. I started laughing. And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.”
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“How about your favorite book?" "This Side of Paradise by From. Scott Fitzgerald." "Why?" "Because it was the last one I read." This made them laugh because they knew I meant it honest, not show-off. Then they told me their favorites, and we sat quiet.”
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“It's okay to feel things. And be who you are about them.”
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“Pensé para mí mismo que en la palma de mi mano había una cinta que contenía todos estos recuerdos y sentimientos, grandes alegrías y tristezas. Justo ahí, en la palma de mi mano. Y pensé en cuanta gente ha amado esas canciones, cómo mucha gente ha superado un montón de malos tiempos gracias a estas canciones, cómo mucha gente ha disfrutado de buenos tiempos con estas canciones y cuánto significan estas canciones en realidad. Pienso que sería genial haber escrito alguna de estas canciones. Apuesto que si yo escribiera uno de esos temas, estaría muy orgulloso. Espero que las personas que escribieron esas canciones sean felices. Y espero que sientan que es suficiente. De verdad lo espero, porque ellos me han hecho feliz. Y soy sólo una persona.”
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“Y en ese momento, juro que éramos infinitos.”
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“Aceptamos el amor que creemos merecer.”
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“We are who we are for a lot of reasons”
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“What's the point of using words nobody knows or can say comfortably?”
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“Bob says that when you're alone, and you light a cigarette, and the cigarette is only half way lit that means someone is thinking about you. He also says that when you find a penny, it's only "lucky" if it's heads-up. He says the best thing to do is find a lucky penny when you're with someone and give the other person goodluck ”.”
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“Regardless, I decided to never take LSD again.”
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“I really want to be a writer but I don't know what to write about""You could write about us”
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“And she kissed me. It was the kind of kiss that I could never tell my friends about out loud. It was the kind of kiss that made me know that I was never so happy in my whole life.”
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“I think it's nice for stars to do interviews to make us think they are just like us, but to tell you the truth, I get the feeling that it's all a big lie. The problem is I don't know who's lying.”
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“She said I was the most sensitive boy she'd ever met, whichI didn't understand because really all I did was not interrupt her.”
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“You should tell her how niceher outfit is because her outfit is her choice whereas her face isn't.”
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“he was "resting his eyes," which means he was sleepingbut didn't want me to change the channel.”
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“And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.”
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“I don't think we should base so much on weight, muscles, and a good hair day, but when it happens, it's nice. It really is.”
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“Es genial que puedas escuchar y ser un paño de lágrimas para alguien, pero ¿y si ese alguien no necesita un paño de lágrimas? ¿Y si necesita los brazos o algo así? No puedes quedarte ahí sentado y poner las vidas de todos los demás por delante de la tuya y pensar que eso cuenta como amor. Sencillamente, no puedes. Tienes que hacer cosas.”
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“I couldn't believe Sam actually got me a present because i honestly thought the "I love you" was it.”
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“They just knew. And I think that's all you can ever ask from a friend.”
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“My dad said I did the right thing. I hope I did, but it's hard to tell sometimes.”
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“Patrick started driving really fast, and just before we got to the tunnel. Sam stood up, and the wind turned her dress into ocean waves. When we hit the tunnel, all the sound got scooped up into a vacuum, and it was replaced by a song on the tape player. A beautiful song called “Landslide.” When we got out of the tunnel, Sam screamed this really fun scream, and there it was. Downtown. Lights on buildings and everything that makes you wonder. Sam sat down and started laughing. Patrick started laughing. I started laughing.And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.”
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“I guess what I’m saying is that this all feels very familiar. But it’s not mine to be familiar about. I just know that another kid has felt this. This one time when it’s peaceful outside, and you’re seeing things move, and you don’t want to, and everyone is asleep. And all the books you’ve read have been read by other people. And all the songs you’ve loved have been heard by other people. And you know that if you looked at these when you were happy, you would feel great because you are describing “unity”.”
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“I was very grateful to have heard it again. Because I guess we all forget sometimes. And I think everyone is special in their own way. I really do.”
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“I don't know the significance of this, but I find it very interesting.”
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“Not anything specific really. They just knew. And I think that's all you can ever ask from a friend.”
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“You're a freak, you know that? You've always been a freak. Everyone says so. They always have.""I'm trying not to be.”
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“So I started shoveling Bob's driveway, which is a strange thing to do at a New Years Eve Party”
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“Every time I see this one particular movie star on a magazine, I can't help but feel terribly sorry for her because nobody respects her at all, and yet they keep interviewing her. And the interviews are all the same thing.They start with what food they are eating in some restaurant. "As _____ gingerly munched her Chinese Chicken Salad, she spoke of love." And all the covers say the same thing: "_____ gets to the bottom of stardom, love, and his/her hit new movie/television show/album."I think it's nice for stars to do interviews to make us think they are just like us, but to tell you the truth, I get the feeling that it's all a big lie. The problem is I don't know who's lying.”
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“When to stopped wishing things wouldn't fall apart, you'd stop suffering when they did.”
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“So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them.”
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“I didn't feel like reading that night, so I went downstairs and watched a half-hour long commercial that advertised an exercise machine. They kept flashing a 1-800 number, so I called it. The woman who picked up the other end of the phone was named Michelle. And I told Michelle that I was a kid and did not need an exercise machine, but I hoped she was having a good night.That's when Michelle hung up on me. And I didn't mind a bit.”
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“So, why would I care whether or not he loved me when he didn't really even know me?”
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