“I feel compelled to say something else to you. There has been a certain ill-feeling between us the cause of which I do not want to analyze. I have struggled against the feeling of bitterness attached to it, with complete success. I think of you again with unmixed geniality and ask you to try to do the same with me. It is a shame when two real fellows who have extricated themselves somewhat from this shabby world do not afford each other mutual pleasure.”
In this quote, Albert Einstein addresses the theme of reconciliation and the importance of overcoming personal grievances to restore harmony. He acknowledges the presence of "ill-feeling" between himself and another person but consciously chooses not to delve into its origins, emphasizing instead his deliberate effort to let go of bitterness.
Einstein’s use of the phrase "struggled against the feeling of bitterness with complete success" highlights his self-awareness and emotional maturity, showing that forgiveness and goodwill are active, intentional processes rather than passive occurrences. By inviting the other person to respond in kind—"ask you to try to do the same with me"—he extends an olive branch grounded in mutual respect.
The expression "two real fellows who have extricated themselves somewhat from this shabby world" suggests a shared sense of authenticity and perhaps shared hardships or disillusionments with the world’s flaws. Einstein points out that it is regrettable ("a shame") for such individuals not to "afford each other mutual pleasure," underlining the value of camaraderie, kindness, and positive human interaction even amid prior conflict.
Overall, the quote reflects Einstein’s philosophy of human connection transcending conflict, urging reconciliation for the sake of mutual peace and genuine fellowship.
“Do not laugh at me for writing you without having anything sensible to say. But I am so enraged by the base manner in which the public is presently daring to concern itself with you that I absolutely must give vent to this feeling. I am impelled to tell you how much I have come to admire your intellect, your drive, and your honesty, and that I consider myself lucky to have made your personal acquaintance in Brussels. Anyone who does not number among these reptiles is certainly happy, now as before, that we have such personages among us as you, and Langevin too, real people with whom one feels privileged to be in contact. If the rabble continues to occupy itself with you, then simply don't read that hogwash, but rather leave it to the reptile for whom it has been fabricated.”
“I do not at all believe in human freedom in the philosophical sense... Schopenhauer’s saying, ‘A man can do what he wants, but not will what he wants,’ has been a very real inspiration to me since my youth; it has been a continual consolation in the face of life’s hardships, my own and others’, and an unfailing wellspring of tolerance. This realization mercifully mitigates the easily paralyzing sense of responsibility and prevents us from taking ourselves and other people too seriously; it is conducive to a view of life which, in part, gives humour its due.”
“Only the Catholic Church protested against the Hitlerian onslaught on liberty. Up till then I had not been interested in the Church, but today I feel a great admiration for the Church, which alone has had the courage to struggle for spiritual truth and moral liberty”
“Honestly, I cannot understand what people mean when they talk about the freedom of the human will. I have a feeling, for instance, that I will something or other; but what relation this has with freedom I cannot understand at all. I feel that I will to light my pipe and I do it; but how can I connect this up with the idea of freedom? What is behind the act of willing to light the pipe? Another act of willing? Schopenhauer once said: Der Mensch kann was er will; er kann aber nicht wollen was er will (Man can do what he will but he cannot will what he wills).”
“What I see in Nature is a magnificent structure that we can comprehend only very imperfectly, and that must fill a thinking person with a feeling of humility. This is a genuinely religious feeling that has nothing to do with mysticism.”
“It was, of course, a lie what you read about my religious convictions, a lie which is being systematically repeated. I do not believe in a personal God and I have never denied this but have expressed it clearly. If something is in me which can be called religious then it is the unbounded admiration for the structure of the world so far as our science can reveal it.”