“Have you ever done any running or jogging?” Hawk asked.[...]“I walk,” she told him. “I’ve never had any desire to run or jog.”“Why not? Don’t you like to sweat?”“As a matter of fact, I don’t.” She smiled. “Besides, Southern ladies never sweat. We don’t even perspire.”“Then what the hell do you do?”“We glow.”
The exchange between Hawk and the Southern lady highlights cultural perceptions and personal preferences regarding physical activity. Here are some questions to foster deeper reflection on the themes of exercise, identity, and societal norms:
Cultural Perceptions: How do cultural norms influence your attitudes toward physical exercise and appearance? Do you see any similarities in your own life?
Activity Preferences: What activities do you enjoy that allow you to express yourself without feeling pressured to conform to social expectations?
Gender Expectations: In what ways do societal expectations of masculinity and femininity affect the way individuals respond to physical exertion?
Self-Identity: How much do you believe your identity is shaped by the opinions of others regarding what activities are appropriate for you?
Physical Activity: What are your feelings about sweating during exercise? Does it affect your willingness to participate in physical activities?
Humor and Attitude: How does the humorous exchange about "glowing" instead of sweating add to the understanding of personality differences in how we view fitness and health?
Personal Reflection: Have there been times in your life when you felt pressured to engage in an activity (like running or jogging) despite personal reluctance? How did you handle that situation?
Community Influence: Reflect on your community or social circles. How do they influence what activities are seen as acceptable or desirable?
Changing Preferences: Over time, have you found that your feelings about certain activities (like running or walking) have changed? What prompted that change?
Balancing Activity: What strategies do you use to balance your preferences for physical activity with external expectations, and how do they impact your overall well-being?
“You'd think after seven years of riding, I'd have you broken in by now.' She licked him intimately.”
“He had wanted. He had needed. He had desired. And he had taken. But he had never loved.”
“We're getting married as soon as possible,' he said.'Is that what you call a proposal?''I'm not much of a romantic, honey, but you already know that. And I won't be much of a bargain as a husband, but I have a feeling you'll whip me into shape without too much trouble. Heck, by the time we have kids, I'll probably be downright domesticated.”
“It's obvious Plott doesn't have any idea where he's going.”
“Joanna nodded in agreement, not resisting, not putting up a fight of any kind.”
“Ride em, cowgirl,' he said.And she did.”