“Integration is not the same as blending. Integration requires that we maintain elements of our differentiated selves while also promoting our linkage. Becoming a part of a "we: does not mean losing a "me." Integration as a focus of intervention among a range of domains of integration becomes the fundamental basis for how we apply interpersonal neurobiology principles to the nurturing of healthy relationships.”
“We bus to avoid integrating our housing, underscoring the fact that we continually ask our schools to do what we can't seem to do in other domains of our society.”
“66 books by 40 authors and we now find that it (the Bible) is an integrated message system from outside our time domain.”
“We must hide our integrity, like we hide our love.”
“The only thing we have in this world that is utterly and intrinsically ours is our integrity.”
“Reading enables me to maintain a sense of something substantive– my ethical integrity, my intellectual integrity.”