“If you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong.”
“No, no, no, no, no. Sex should not be fun, okay? Sex can be lots of things - thrilling, romantic, scary, mindless, dirty, dangerous, frantic, forbidden, freaky - but if you're finding it 'fun,' you're doing it wrong.”
“If people make fun of you, that probably means you're doing something right.”
“If you're going to do something wrong, at least enjoy it.”
“Writing a book is a blood sport. If it doesn't hurt when you're done, you're probably doing something wrong.”
“Aidan to Jude: What's wrong with running away if where you were didn't suit you? Doesn't it follow you're funning to something else? Something that does suit you?”