“Is it possible, in the final analysis, for one human being to achieve perfect understanding of another?We can invest enormous time and energy in serious efforts to know another person, but in the end, how close can we come to that person's essence? We convince ourselves that we know the other person well, but do we really know anything important about anyone?”
“No one actually needs another person or another person's love to survive. Love is when we have irrationally convinced ourselves that we do.”
“The point is not knowing another person, or learning to love another person. The point is simply this: how tender can we bear to be?”
“Only through art can we emerge from ourselves and know what another person sees.”
“If we do not know how to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves, we cannot take care of the people we love. Loving oneself is the foundation for loving another person.”
“How well can we really know another person? Peolpe can be in your lives for years - they can fill your lives. But all you really know of them are the stories they tell you. And then they die. They always leave a mystery behind.”