“She told me that if magic gives people what they want, then not using magic can give them what they need.”
“Charity ain't giving people what you wants to give, it's giving people what they need to get.”
“...Some people hurt so much they can't take what they need, even when someone wants to give it to them. (106)”
“If you give boys what they want, they give you what you need. Right?”
“I've always thought there are two ways of getting what you wanted in life.Forcing people to give it to you,or making them want to give it to you.”