“You find out who you are by figuring out who and what you're not”
“Sometimes, if not most of the time, you find out who you are by figuring out who and what you are not.”
“Before you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren't..”
“You should figure out who you are and what you need, and then don't apologize for it.”
“No one starts out with the answers. You figure them out as you go and you learn from the people who figured them out before you.”
“You find out who your real friends are when you're involved in a scandal.”