“Many people fail in their career, business and relationship, and others get stuck because of their inability to make quality decisions.”

“If you think of someone's good qualities as the umeboshi in an onigiri it's as if their qualities are stuck to their back! Maybe the reason people get jealous of each other is because they can see so clearly the umeboshi on other people's backs.”

“Investigations, meditations, careers, relationships were much the same, he mused. They failed because no one thought to ask the right question.”

“Or if he takes whatever dull job he's stuck with -- and they are all, sooner or later, dull -- and, just to keep himself amused, starts to look for options of Quality, and secretly pursues these options, just for their own sake, thus making an art out of what he is doing, he's likely to discover that he becomes a much more interesting person and much less of an object to the people around him because his Quality decisions change him too. And not only the job and him, but others too because the Quality tends to fan out like waves. The Quality job he didn't think anyone was going to see is seen, and the person who sees it feels a little better because of it, and is likely to pass that feeling on to others, and in that way the Quality tends to keep on going.”

“Too often, people get stuck in a state of over-thinking, the result is that they never reach a decision.”

“Studies show adolescent males often make decisions based on sex. Many fail to grow out of it.”