“This intimacy is not necessary; no one is compelling me to open my inmost self and lay it naked, undefended, against that of another – merely for the joy of the communion.”
“The desire of intimacy is the desire to share one's innermost self with another”
“The preparation of good food is merely another expression of art, one of the joys of civilized living…”
“Living does mean accepting the loss of one joy after another, not even joys in her case, mere possibilities of improvement.”
“It is a naked city. Faith is not pampered, nor hope encouraged; there is no place to lay one's exhaustion: but instead pinnacles skewer it undisguised against vacancy.”
“No one has written adequately of what happens when enough of the body's naked surface is pressed against another human being's. It is a slow dismantling of ego, a suspension of the instinct to distinguish Me from Not Me.”